a cemetery

Last week Barby and I tacked on a visit to Kanchanaburi after speaking at a conference in Thailand. This is ‘Bridge over the River Kwai’ territory and all those stories about the Japanese using 200,000 POWs in 50 different camps to build a 400km train track in just six months – before the Allies bombed the bridge. Something like 100,000 people died…

There is also the ‘Miracle on the River Kwai’ story that led to the movie To End All Wars (2000; directed by the son of the founder of YWAM) where the vibrant Christian faith of a Dusty Miller transforms a POW camp – even to the point where he is crucified by the Japanese as he offers to die in the place of one of the camp ratbags, played by Keifer Sutherland. The DVD was in our local video store.

The highlight of our visit was the Allied Cemetery. There is something about death that makes you think about life (cf Ecclesiastes 7:2). The final scenes of the movie are set in this cemetery.

The cemetery is immaculate. Grass kept trim. Big trees. Plants beside every gravestone. Mainly British, Australian, and Dutch soldiers.

On our second visit I found this compelling sight of an elderly women making her way along row after row, stooped over and dependent on her walking stick.

Then it occurred to me that if I went on Google at a local cafe I could find out the name of the man who was crucified and then locate the plaque for him (Dusty Miller). I did so and then on my third visit, after searching through hundreds of plaques, I found this one – which I hope is the right one! There was only one other “Miller (H.W.)”…

Each plaque has room for just two lines of writing. I was surprised to see so many Bible verses being used – the most common being “Greater love hath no man than to give his life for his friends”. But there were other quotations that were memorable:

“Those who loved him most, miss him most.”

“For love he lived, for peace he died.
I asked for his life – but this was denied.”

“O for the touch of that vanished hand
And the sound of the voice that is still.”

“Sleep on, Beloved. Take Thy rest.
We love thee well – but God loved thee best.”

“Just when his life was brightest, he gave his best.
God grant him heavenly rest.”

“Thy Word is true. Thy will is just.
To Thee we leave him, Lord, in trust.”

Kanchanaburi is just 3hrs west of Bangkok’s airport. If you ever have a day to fill in Thailand, hire a taxi … visit the bridge, the cemetery, and the museum adjacent to the cemetery. A day to remember.

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Paul Windsor

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After a childhood in India, a theological training in the USA and a pastoral ministry in Southland (New Zealand), I spent twenty years in theological education in New Zealand — first at Laidlaw College and then at Carey Baptist College, where I served as principal. In 2009 I began working with Langham Partnership and since 2013 I have been the Programme Director (Langham Preaching). Through it all I've cherished the experience of the 'gracious hand of God upon me' and I've relished the opportunity to 'unpack', or exegete, all that I encounter in my walk through life with Jesus.

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  1. Mark Maffey on January 8, 2008 at 7:04 am

    Hi Paul,

    As I contemplate the verses and pictures, the hymn that immediately comes to mind is this:

    When I survey the wondrous cross
    On which the Prince of glory died,
    My richest gain I count but loss,
    And pour contempt on all my pride.

    See from His head, His hands, His feet,
    Sorrow and love flow mingled down!
    Did e’er such love and sorrow meet,
    Or thorns compose so rich a crown?

    Were the whole realm of nature mine,
    That were a present far too small;
    Love so amazing, so divine,
    Demands my soul, my life, my all.

    The prisoners of war, The Eric Liddell’s, the Dusty Miller’s, who experienced things that too me are so incomprehensible and illustrate man’s inhumanity to man not onrlected but lived the last two lines of this hymn Love so amazing, so divine, demands my soul, my life, my all.

    As we consider the year ahead, do we like Paul have the capacity, the faith, the fortitude to say i no longer live, but Christ lives in me, to take up the Cross?

    As I consider the book of judges and the downward spiral the Israelites traversed, I wonder if we are not living in a land not dissimilar to this time, are we in a place where like Gideon we can hear God’s voice say, Then the Lord turned to him
    And said, “Go with the strength you have, and rescue Israel from the Midianites. I am sending you!”

    Are we prepared to go with the strength we have, and have a prophetic voice which challenges NZ where it is at. Whilst we may desire revival, before revival can come, repentance must precede.

  2. Karen Haines on February 21, 2008 at 4:55 pm

    Thanks Paul, the photos and your comments reminded me vividly of visiting Kanchanaburi with an old school friend and Roxanne several years ago – it was somewhere that I had always wanted to go. And the cemetery was definitely the highlight for us too.

    Karen

  3. Anonymous on June 27, 2008 at 5:05 pm

    Actually “Dusty” Miller dies for the Scot’s man in the movie and not Kiefer’s character

  4. dbfact on July 7, 2017 at 10:09 am

    I am going to Kanachanaburi in Dec 2018 and would like to find the grave plaque for Dusty Miller. Does anyone know if there is a 'directory' to make it possible to locate? Thank you, Debbie Belcore

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